Many couples look forward to having younger children as part
of their wedding party – whether the kids are close relatives, friends’ kids or
even their own. Having children in the wedding party does add its own share of
challenges and rewards.
Match the duties to the kid. Your 3-year-old niece may be
the cutest thing ever, but if she’s terrified of people and won’t let go of her
mom when you visit, she may not be the best choice to be a flower girl.
Likewise, a young man who loves being in the spotlight might enjoy being a ring
bearer or junior groomsman. Ask the kids’ moms and dads to help you decide if
their little one is suited for being in the wedding.
Practice, practice, practice! No matter what the child’s
duties are, they should be at minimum at the rehearsal! That will give them an
idea of how far they have to walk, where they have to turn, and what will be
expected of them. Any child who is expected to perform a particular task
(tossing rose petals or making a short announcement) should be practicing at
home, too!
Be prepared. Pretty much for anything. When the time comes,
the kids will be nervous and excited. Your little charmer of a flower girl may
panic and run. Or the junior groomsman will refuse to come down the aisle at
all. Make sure there’s someone in the audience who’s prepared to jump in and
help, no matter what the situation.
Accommodate them at the reception. Little guests have
different needs during the party. Our previous post on keeping your littlest guests entertained has some great tips.
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