Those special family heirlooms

One of our co-workers told us a great story about her family’s wedding dress. It had been purchased in the 1940s by an aunt and then (in those thrifty times) worn by her mother.

Fast forward to the 1960s, and she and her cousin both wore it. Now, the next generation is looking to re-use the dress (with some minor modern updates). The family’s rule was no major alterations for sizing changes; as long as you fit into it, you could wear the dress. It certainly makes for a special connection between the (so far) three generations of women, and it’s an heirloom that has marked this special day for each woman.

Of course, not every bride can – or wants to – fit into an heirloom dress. But there are plenty of ways to use a beloved older piece or start a new tradition.

For the brides: Veils can fit a variety of women, and can be changed easily from bride to bride.  They can even be repurposed from an out-of-style dress.  Jewelry can be shared from generation to generation as well, like a favorite ring, pair of earrings, necklace, or even a brooch. If you don’t want to wear the piece as part of your wedding attire, you can always use it as a decoration in your bouquet.

For the grooms: Accessories like ties, cuff links or a handkerchief can easily be passed from generation to generation.  And, just like for the brides, a piece that the groom doesn’t want to wear in its original form could always be used to complete a boutonniere.

What are your family traditions and heirlooms? Tell us in the comments!