Every couple tries to find a way to make their wedding
special for them; they want each aspect of the ceremony and reception to
reflect who they are. But one big decision has to be made first – are you planning
a traditional or modern wedding? Or are you looking to find a balance between
the two?
Some things to consider when trying to find a balance
between the traditional and the modern is what, if any, religious elements the
two of you expect to keep in your ceremony. If it’s in a house of worship, you
will be keeping many traditional elements by definition. Discuss your options
with your officiant, you may find you have more wiggle room than you thought to
add personalized elements.
Another possibility is to keep your reception more modern.
There are no rules stating you must do certain elements. Skip the bouquet toss.
Serve cupcakes and avoid the cutting of the cake. It’s up to the two of you!
If you’re having a civil ceremony, then the options are much
more open. You can make your wedding and reception as quirky and personal – or
as by-the-book – as you want. Pick a theme like your favorite movie, TV show or
era. Design your ceremony and reception around that. Or, if you prefer, just
take some elements and weave them into a more traditional ceremony.
Finding the balance is about discussing what the two of you
want; then working together to make it happen!
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